This is kind of a sensitive topic for me, but a confusing one as well. Me being an African American male, I have recently seen some terrible things my race has done to our beautiful black women. I was standing at a bus stop one day, matter fact just last week, when a guy told his girlfriend to bring her stupid a** here. I was looking like I know she is not going to just come once homey told her that, but she did! I was in shock and wondering why would she ever put up with someone like that?
Another experience happened just a few days ago, when a black man called his girlfriend a h** and a told her that he lets b****** and h*** pay his way. I was once again in shock, and saying to myself what has happened to my men, and my beautiful women. I'll be the very first person to stand up for anybody from my race, but this is too much even for me, and I'm still a teenager! Once I see these guys from my own race call black women these horrible names, I'm hurt and feeling for the women, because I know personally women who have been called these names and were left crying and wondering why.
I can't ever give them the answer why. I know some people are going to say rap music, but at some point in your life you have to know right from wrong, and if you are forty years old listening to a twenty year old, arguing you got the words from that twenty year old, then you are just pathetic. How can you let someone twenty years younger then you dictate how you approach women?
At the same time, I wish that my black women realize that they have more to offer to the world, then to just be talked about by every race. I really don't know what the problem is. If you are in love with that person, love should conquer all, but there has to be a limit. I love my black women, and would do anything for them, no matter size, or height. Black women are smart, independent, and are the first ones who would root the majority of us black males on when we are doing something positive. I just want the horrible names to stop, and for black women to realize what type of special gift they are to the world.
We as black men are much better then that, and I know deep down inside we love our black women, we just have to show it a little bit better.
If you are showing love to the black women, more power to you. If you are not and you know you have done one horribly wrong, I don't know what to say to ya homey! I got much love for both black males, and black females. If we don't look out for each other,who is going to?
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